"Hell Yes"

I read this article recently that made me sit up and think.......
 

Think about this for a moment: Why would you ever choose to be with someone who is not excited to be with you?

An area of dating that has always been of a concern is that when one persons feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger feelings than the other. It's something that is real and has the potential to cause problems in the future if not now. 

 

The law states that when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, they must inspire you to say “Hell Yes” in order for you to proceed with them.

The Law of “Hell Yes or No” also states that when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, THEY must respond with a “Hell Yes” in order for you to proceed with them.

This law implies that both parties must be enthusiastic about the prospect of one another’s company.

Why? Because attractive, non-needy, high self-worth people don’t have time for people who they are not excited to be with and who are not excited to be with them.

The tangible benefits for adopting this are that you are:

1. No longer strung along by people who aren’t that into you. End all of the headaches. End the wishing and hoping. End the disappoint and anger that inevitably follows. Start practicing self-respect. Become the rejector, not the rejected.
2. The consent issues are instantly resolved. If someone is playing games with you, playing hard to get, or pressuring you into doing something you’re unsure about, your answer is now easy. Or as I often like to say in regards to dating, “If you have to ask, then that’s your answer.”
3. Establishing strong personal boundaries and enforcing them. Maintaining strong boundaries not only makes one more confident and attractive, but also helps you to preserve your sanity in the long-run.
4. Always knowing where you stand with the other person. Since you’re now freeing up so much time and energy from people you’re not that into, and people who are not that into you, you now find yourself perpetually in interactions where people’s intentions are clear and enthusiastic.

This Law is universal. It can be applied to every aspect of your life

Jamie Paolinetti once wrote:

 "Limitations live only in our minds. But if we use our imaginations our possibilities become limitless."