I would like to think of myself as passionate, genuine and loyal, but I have been questioned of late with regards to these qualities that I value in life. I don't believe in infidelity and I do believe in being honest with your partner........My previous relationships have been brought into question because they are over........Again, they ended for a reason.....Two people have got the right to grow apart, simple as that. The way they began, were and then ended made me who I am. And do I regret them, absolutely not. Now do I have times where I question what happened in them. Of course, everyone does........
As well, I do believe in spending quality time with the person you want to be with. Is it a crime to want to be seen in public together at functions or maybe even travel together.....?? I think not.......Sure you can look at it as an insecure person who doesn't trust the other and is wanting to spend time with them for that reason. But I prefer to think of it as spending time with and doing things with the person that you have chosen to share your life with. Personally I think if the former is the way a person is thinking then there is something seriously wrong and that is not only unhealthy but dysfunctional........Nothing is going to fix that..........
So now I'm stuck......Stuck between someone who has bought into question everything that I value and have valued and moving forward in life and continuing to address life with the values that I have held so close all my life......
Truth about it is everyone has there own set of values and moral standards in life. The way they choose to behave in life is up to them. But I want to live life without the hesitation of the would of, should of, and could of...........
I was text the other day after my last blog that I should "practice what I preach".......I think I do.........
Here's one that I thought that I would never quote: Walt Disney......
"We keep moving forward, opening new doors, and doing new things, because we're curious and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths."
Ppl grow and evolve and values can change. These are gradual happenings and are usually not brought on by a challenge of their validity. A partner is a teammate someone on the same side fighting for a similar future that involves the other teammate as well.
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